All the parents are worried about their kids and attitude. But, what the best strategy is to solve daily problems or unexpected incidents happening early in the morning or before going to bed.
Change your attitude and work in fovour of your kids. If you are a parent then you should come down one step from your parenthood and put your foot in their shoe just to know what their mind is running to.
If your kid wants to get something which you think is bad for him. How can you prevent him for reaching there?
In such condition, do not behave like a father or mother. You should change yourself into a friend of the same age.
If your kids ages 10 and is very stubborn, change your age according to him. Think, eat, sleep and behave just like him or her. Once your kid realizes that you are very close to him, you can share good and bad things with him.
I tell you one thing.
My younger brother, who went to meet our sister-in-law (wife of my elder brother), he saw that her niece was forcing to eat an apple. Her mother was trying to convince him that there is no apple but she was determined to eat it.
His father came and simply said “my dear, yesterday when you were sleeping with your pillow then apple and banana befriended and now the apple is inside banana, if you have banana you will have an apple”.
The girl which of six years, believed his father and did not talk about an apple.
There are number of examples we can see in our daily life. But the importance should be given to the practical.